Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me.
You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality.
It is not something that should be taken lightly. For reference we're both in our mids. What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together. You are a good person and she can see that. I am deeply hurt and am a very lonely doctor's wife.
I love my job very much and it has give me many joys, but stimultaneus many hours apart from my children, my husband and my mother when there is a need. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far.