But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. I'm going to disagree with what some of the people have said. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. If he weren't a doctor saving lives and had more free time, he could most definitely do YOUR job. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true.
He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. Sure I have met alot of douche bag doctors who have no morals, think they are 'it' and you know that they feel free to cheat whenever. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. What upsets me most is that he didn't realize it was my birthday, or a big one and then that his reaction was to get defensive about his plans rather than offer an alternative for celebrating with me.
Should I just end it if the loneliness bothers me already. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. The woman I have feelings for is conflicted on her religion in regards to me. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. Wish I knew ways on how to cope with being a girlfriend to a doctor. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well.
It is not something that should be taken lightly. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency.