Even if he just has a weekend free, getting away, just teh two of us, helps so very much. It takes the right personality and commitment on both sides. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. If you can't do that, realizing that your partner may never come around to your side of things, you are not ready to marry this person. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. I am so glad I found this blog. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too.
It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. My husband's extramarital relationships were well-known in the hospital where he practiced. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. In a few months, he will begin working, and his first few years will be demanding what else is new.
Develop Your Own Curriculum. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. Tips Mormon girls are much like other girls their age, in that they want guys to respect them and treat them well. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment.
Rights of all genders are supported here. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with.