The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards.
What a miserable state. Hire out as many household chores as you can afford housekeeping, lawn care etc. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. I have been that crazy lady with four kids alone at everything, school events, home events, church events.
How convenient for him. You were a banker too. She went ahead a married a non member. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values.
After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. How long did you date him and put up with that. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. After 15 years of marriage, I'm so used to living a separate life with our 3 kids.