Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. He said that if there is an exception, it is for the individual to obtain through the spirit. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. I told her that I want to only be friends. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. Two deployments, two years away and I've reached the point where it is honestly easier when he is away. There are such things as perfect loving families though. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him.
Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO. We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day.
I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. What a miserable state. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon.
The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. I don't know what to do. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. I often feel it's harder than being a single mom because the false hope is just torture. Communicate and get those answers, OP. I feel like the person who is giving our relationship strength, and the one who will keep our family going in the right direction in the future, as well. Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses.