God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity.
I've tried creating my own activities and pursuing interests but it still feels weird. Am I dating a douchebag. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies.
Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. I do not text or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. It can't be antiMormon. I often think about what I would tell my daughters if one day they tell me that they are dating a doctor…….
It had been going on for years. Learn from Experienced Professionals. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. Of course, it will cause fights, as well.