I grew up believing that when, where, and by what authority I was married were equally important to whom I married. It is so hard, so sad and so lonely. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. That settles it for me.
She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere. I try to visit for a couple hours here and there. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program.
I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy. He might be a doc by day but when he's not at the hospital he's a regular guy just like anyone else. This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. I've been searching around for advice, and this blog page is probably the most informative on the topic of dating a doctor as I've been able to find anywhere. Sorry if I gave that impression.
Want to add to the discussion. If I just assume he won't be home to eat dinner with us, it's a happy surprise when he is. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. With that being said, I have long considered myself just a tad outside super TBM since we watched Game of Thrones, drank energy drinks, and occasionally stayed in my running clothes sans garments to do yard work. Ok, so what concerns do you have about the biggest difference of allвwhen your child brings home a potential mate of a completely different gender. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home.