That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. In the end people have to make their own decisions. It seems like you havent had enough time to get to know him, and honestly you wont for a while. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. To not do residency and leave medicine behind. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. So I am always alone,our communication is not fully connected, he has no time to talk everything with me, causing a lot of misunderstanding. All the other stuffв is crap.
I adored seeing him when I could planned good home made meals and always sent him off the next night with a special packed lunch. After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make up for being absent from their lives so much. It's a tricky business, but oh so worth it for the one you love. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off.
And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday. I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy". Learn all you can. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. And as much as I love my boyfriend with my whole heart, I can see now that sadly maybe I might have to reconsider a life married to him. I still feel enriched by the contrasts, but in the important things, we have largely come together. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith.
I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. You are a good person and she can see that.
